Has anyone avoided braces for multiple decade out of fear of humiliation?

Crowdwe

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As a kid, my parents were told I needed braces – several teeth are turned at angles in the rear, but you don’t see them. There’s a midline discrepancy as well as an overbite. I have found years later I have sleep apnea. I fought my parents tooth and nail and never showed up for any potential appointments or a consultation. My parents simply gave up, especially due to the cost.Now? My teeth are tipping in and I’m finding it difficult to avoid this anymore. (We are talking decades.) in my 20s I wound up with four rear molar crowns . At that time they told me you could not get braces. So, I have avoided this  for many more years-the only comfort I’m getting lately is wearing the occlusal night guard that I have for my top teeth most of the day. My speech is incredibly clear  and dictating on phone or tablet the dictation is better than when it’s out . It  is actually easier than when I have it out. I have even talked on the phone and no one asked me to repeat myself. I find that unusual. I think that may be because the occlusal night guard has a steep angle behind the top teeth, which goes up to my top palate.  It i seems to be beyondbeing the horseshoe palate that you see on the braces for a forum store.In front of my teeth, it covers the teeth and goes up close to a half inch above. It’s old/my bottom teeth no longer lineup with the indentation for them. That tells me the midline has shifted even more.

Unfortunately, the dentist that I had who made this and told me that I might possibly need orthodontics in the near future - I did not listen to him either and he is now deceased.( At that time I was embarrassed because I was teaching school. The first time it was because I was in school. The second time I refused because I was teaching school. I feared not being able to make myself clearly heard. Kids can be very cruell ) My current Dentist basically doesn’t believe in braces, not for adults anyway (especially older ones). Anybody have suggestions about finding an ortho just for a consultation? Especially when your dentist does not agree. Do you need to have your dentist on board with it because honestly, I’m not sure mine is. I asked him about a newer night splint two years ago and he said you don’t need it. The more I cannot speak properly because my tongue is spreading out  and I have the  splint out, it’s actually painful. The splint actually holds my teeth closer into my palate then it did when it was made I can feel it on my back teeth. The more I think I need to go see an ortho. I am too old to be proud about not going. I just want to avoid future problems.



 
My experience in short words. Don’t hesitate to consult orthodontists. Two or three to get different opinions.
I did the same one and a half year ago, with 54.
Don’t listen to your dentist, ask the specialists.
And don’t worry about, what others will think or say about you in braces.
In my case, only a few people mentioned my braces. And the only feedback I got was 100% positive.
Now, after almost 15 months in braces I can say, it was the best decision to get them. I hope I can keep my jewelry as long as possible.
 
Absolutely get an orthodontic consultation. They are often free in some places but it is important to get a proper orthodontic opinion and get more than one so you can compare prices and options. Never too old for braces. Many teachers get braces, once you get them you will be fine. If you get a comment just shrug it off or ignore it or send them out of class! You are the teacher! Most people will be positive about it though.
It’s super important to get aligned teeth for your long term health as you can have more complications later down the line
 
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